beautiful women

 Okay first of all guys generally like to look at beautiful women. And guys will quite often Chase beautiful women. And how many times have you heard somebody say yeah he got rich and married a beautiful woman. Or right out of high school he married the high school Queen. So a beautiful woman is highly desirable. In the Bible it acknowledges that beautiful women get men into trouble on multiple occasions. So now let's talk about me.

Like many other guys I was attracted to beautiful women. The thing I realized early on though is that beautiful women could be a big negative. Other guys are looking at them a lot. Those guys are thinking I wish she was with me, I wonder what she's like in bed. If you married some plain chick occasionally there's going to be some guy who thinks she's fabulous. But that will be the exception rather than just every guy that walks by. Also quite often when I look at beautiful women instead of being captivated I think ooh big problem. High maintenance lots of competition. Quite often not a good situation. Also this isn't always true any woman can be flaky but I found that some beautiful women have kind of developed a flaky approach to life. For instance they may not be reliable, or they may seem conflicted. Not sure what all that means, but plane checks quite often have more of a let's get married and have kids kind of an attitude. Gorgeous chicks want to have one or two kids, but somehow it's going to be about them. Now playing chicks they've got big egos too, and especially in America they want it to be all about them. So tough call. There are beautiful women that are just as solid as the Rock of Gibraltar. But to me it throws up red flags right away. And quite often gorgeous women have sort of a weird Spirit about them. They may have demons or just literally some sort of spirit that knows they're beautiful and sort of distorts the perceptions of things around them. Plus the woman herself may just have this attitude I'm beautiful and I know it. Now why God did this it just seems like a massive negative. But you even hear people that are older people that are Christians will talk and say something like it's so nice to see a really handsome and beautiful couple that have lived together their whole lives and they get old together and and they're both just you know great models for society and they both let the good life together. Okay I just don't get it. Just what you look like on the outside somehow makes everybody look at you. That's kind of creepy.